HOW TO TURN A GUY DOWN GRAVELY VIA TEXT MESSAGE

Making a subtle approach to turning on a man with text messages

To keep him wanting more, I’m sure you’ll be trying to pique his interest in the most understated way possible.

If that’s the case, read on for some foolproof texting tips on how to get him horny without being too obvious, as well as how to take things to the next level when the time comes.

DO NOT JUMP IN HEAD FIRST; FIRST, EASE INTO IT AND READ THE SITUATION.

I know you’re in the mood, but trust me: don’t rush things! That’s the worst possible course of action. You run the risk of coming off too forward and desperate if you go straight to the dirty text messages.

It would be unfortunate if the guy you’re interested in getting the wrong impression of you. You definitely don’t want him to get the impression that you do this on the regular with any old group of dudes, including him.

Maybe he thinks he’s the lucky one and he wants to know if you’re interested in him.

What you don’t want is to scare him off by being too intense.

Before you start sending sexually suggestive texts, it’s important to gauge the current atmosphere of the conversation. Nothing is more humiliating than starting a dirty conversation at work or with friends.

By observing his behavior and his typical responses to your flirtatious remarks, you can determine whether you have his permission to proceed. Another way to tell is to think back on previous experiences with conversations like this one.

Especially if you’re in the beginning stages of a new relationship, you should evaluate whether or not now is the appropriate time for those sexy SMS messages. You risk turning him off if you start sending him dirty texts too soon. If you are too frank, you might end up killing the budding relationship. That’s why it’s crucial to ease into things gradually.

Before sending anything inappropriate or unsolicited, you should try flirting with him and being a little bit suggestive. It’s important to keep in mind that despite the stereotype, guys are just like anyone else.

Like us women, they have desires, requirements, and consent that must be taken into account. Don’t bother him if he’s not interested.

Relax and take stock of the situation as it stands right now. Is he responding to your advances? If that’s the case, he’s probably in the mood to turn up the heat.

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Once you’ve decided that he’s getting closer to a naughtier conversation, you may be left wondering how to proceed.

Here’s how you can guarantee success in the situation:

TO START OFF THE CONVERSATION, COMPLIMENT HIM.

Simple compliments are always appreciated. You could try paying him a few clean ones before getting down to the real business. This will give him confidence and put him in a good frame of mind.

It’s best to go easy on compliments when first getting to know someone. You should try to keep these from being too clear or vague. Right now, it’s most important that he knows you’re into him, so be as direct as you can.

Relax; there’s no need to be quick about this.

Keep in mind that you’re just trying to boost his self-esteem by letting him know he’s attractive to you and that the real fun hasn’t even begun yet.

Doing so will cause him to contemplate his growing feelings for you. To make him need you desperately, all you have to do is get him thinking about how gorgeous you are.

Try something simple like, “did I mention that you looked really well last night?” if you’re at a loss for words. equivalent to “you look great in that new haircut” or “you’ve gotten a real man’s haircut.”

The trick is to subtly compliment and highlight his physical attributes. A boost to one’s self-esteem can have far-reaching effects.

If you’re lucky, you could even receive a sincere compliment in return. A boost to your own self-esteem and a glimpse into his thoughts on you. It’s a win-win situation.